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TED 2012 Key Themes – Part Two

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There were many business messages that I took away from TED this year, some intentional and some probably not.

One of the unintentional messages was that presented by a number of the science speakers.  These people surrounded themselves with bright, young things which helped to fuel their research engines and provide innovation and new perspectives.  We had a great experience last year when we hired a young turk to support a project we were doing.  She was just outstanding, and had a natural curiousity which shone through in her work.  Unfortunately, we couldn’t keep her – she is now in Australia doing her Phd.  But it was a useful experience for us in helping us to appreciate the perspective and value that smart new minds can add.

Jim Stengel, who was previously a Senior VP at Proctor and Gamble, talked about bringing our whole selves to work.  Much of the message was vaguely familiar but it was still a challenging talk when we turned it in on ourselves.  I’m not convinced that we articulate our ideal as strongly as we could nor that it has the inspiring resonance that we want to it to have.  Part of this, previously, has been the impact of working in a distributed team.  I think we have big opportunities this year to strengthen the clarity and impact of our ideal especially as we seem to be forming a central core in Wellington that ‘out of towners’ can move in and out of.  The other piece of food for thought was Jim’s assertion that when times are tough everyone will be judging your behaviour.  How true!  So, I think it’s important to hang on to habits and connections that during the good times may seem less necessary but by making them part of who I am in the bad times they will hopefully be there to draw upon.

I was looking forward to Atul Gawande’s talk having read and enjoyed his New Yorker piece recently.  He was talking about the world of medicine but much of the content has relevance for a technical business like ours.

Gawande stated that the best medicine is that which is less expensive, has fewer complications and gives the best results.  When he looked at the various different procedures, it was  the ones that looked the most like systems that were the most successful.  However, this is a challenge for professions and organisations that rely on smart minds.  In medicine the culture of autonomy and daring is a disaster and what is needed instead is a pitcrew!  This is especially true because the complexity we are dealing with today (in our business as well as medicine) requires group success.  We all need to be part of the pit crew now.

So, what makes a successful system?  Three things:

  1. Ability to recognise success and recognise failure
  2. Devise solutions – checklists – which have: (1) pause points to help catch problems (2) killer items…the key things that get forgotten (3) a mixture of obvious stuff and interesting stuff
  3. Ability to implement

So this really got me thinking.  We know we have good reference sites and strong advocates for our work.  But how good are we really?  Are we able to recognise when we have success and when we don’t?  One of the difficulties of running a business is that as things get busier it simply seems to be harder to get close to our clients and implementations.  Yet I think this is really important.  In a previous year we  invited to clients to come in and talk to us about how they thought we were doing.  This year I think we need to go out and visit them. This is particularly the case for our successes.  We tend to leave them alone because they are doing well with the consultants they are working with.  It would be great though to get some insights on how and why they are successful and whether there are ways to really build on this for greater success.

Technology / Social Media

Reid Hoffman talked about how the career escalator – get a good job, get a promotion, swap escalators, get another promotion etc. etc. – is no longer true.  He suggests that the fast moving interconnected world has replaced the career ladder.  I’m not sure that I agree with that fully.   I’m a pretty erratic user of tools like Facebook and LinkedIn and have certainly never really bothered to leverage them to make career related connections.  Maybe this is because we are in New Zealand and everyone kinda knows everyone anyway … or they are only a couple of steps removed.

However, the discussion of network identity – who you know shapes who you are – was fascinating as were the insights about how information flows within a network.

Sherry Turkle provided a contra view that was somewhat less positive about the role of technology and social media in our lives.  She said that technology supports 3 of our deepest fantasies:

  1. We can put our attention wherever we want
  2. We are heard
  3. We never had to be alone

With technology we move from “I feel xyz, so I’m going to connect with this person or people” to “I want to have a feeling so I’ll log in”  Freaky!

So, the takeway for me is that self-reflection and solitude remains important and that fiddling around on-line is not a substitute for these.

TED Live overall

Following two years of attending TED Active (Aspen then Palm Springs) we didn’t attend TED last  year… a little something like an earthquake got in the way.  But as soon as the first morning was over it was clear the value that TED gives us.  Through different perspectives on a wide range of topics both related and unrelated to what we do, we make the space to think about issues and opprtunities beyond ourselves.  The way that TED extends our thinking also helps us to think about ourselves and the work that we do with fresh eyes and we have had some of the best conversations so far this year as a result of our TED immersion.

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TED 2012 – The Key Themes first pass

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We’ve been doing TED Live – the simulcast version – this week.

As in previous years, attending or watching 3 and a half days straight of TED talks is the brain’s version of being run over by a truck. This time, Grant and I have taken the time to whiteboard and discuss key themes as they’ve emerged.

Here’s my first post on themes – more to come…

Theme One – Identity

I felt like Susan Cain was talking directly to me in her session on introversion – I suspect so did many of those in the audience at TED.  I think I have learnt how to be an extrovert when the occasion requires it through techniques and strategies.  So while I’m comfortable training groups, running workshops and delivering papers, my natural state is at home curled up with a book and I really don’t enjoy gatherings of more than say 8 people.

Susan emphasised the importance of solitude for introverts, especially as a crucial ingredient for creativity.  Increasingly challenging but important in my own life is the need to carve out these spaces.  With the demands of work, business, family and my need for exercise and sleep, taking time to just be alone often seems like an indulgence.  This is where the walking that we do helps me.  The act of moving convinces my brain that I’m doing something but the disconnect from books, TV and e-things allows me to just be.  And somehow the soothing green really helps.

Jonathan Haidt talked about the need for self-transcendance and said that some people find this in nature.  I think this is what I’m doing when I am out walking.

I had high anticipation for Brene Brown’s talk (having seen her TEDx talk at some point last year) and I wasn’t disappointed. She talked convincingly about vulnerability being our most accurate measurement of courage – the willingness to take emotional risks, to be exposed and to live with the uncertainty of what this might mean.

It seems strange to write this now but I was very hesistant when I first started blogging and conscious of how this might change how people perceive me.  But mostly people respond to authenticity – flawed as a writer may be.

Her discussion of shame was interesting where she said that there is a clear gender difference in the experience of shame.  That for women it is translated into the need to be perfect – to be able to do it all, do it perfectly and to never let them see you sweat.  For men it is the need to never show weakness.  In her research a man told her “the women in my life are harder on me than anyone else”…and I wonder about how I treat and respond to the significant men in my life.  I need to have and show more empathy.

Curiously, many speakers identified a significant parent, grandparent or teacher who had been profoundly influential in who they are today. In particular, where a child has a special relationship with an adult, the adult’s passions play a key role in shaping those things that the child pays attention to.

Theme Two – Justice

The talk of TED was clearly Bryan Stevenson’s talk.  It so engaged and moved me I didn’t take any notes.  He talked about race, poverty and justice (or the lack of it) in the US.  Sitting in comfortably liberal New Zealand I felt appalled and momentarily smug.  And then Grant reminded me of what has happened in Turangi this year and it seems to me that justice, protecting children and poverty are still battles that we have to fight in our own back yard as well.

Nobel Laureate Leymah Gbowee provided an international context when she gave a moving talk about the lack of justice that still exists for girls in many parts of the world.  She has an incredible story and the work that she has done is just amazing.

More themes coming…

 

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The new normal

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The Christchurch City earthquakes in February and June were unbelievably tragic for the city and for many individuals.  Lives and property were lost and no-one who was in the city for either earthquake escaped the sheer terror of having the world shaking underneath, beside and around them.

We have been fortunate. Yet, like many in Christchurch we felt relief towards the end of 2011 as it appeared that the aftershocks were in permanent decline.

With big hits on 23rd December and more on 1st January 2012 our complacency was shattered.  Scientists are now saying that Christchurch will be shaky (albeit at overall declining rates) for the next 30 years to come.

From being firmly decided, before 23rd December, that our future was a Christchurch future latest events and accompanying analysis have made it clear that we cannot just pretend 2011 was an aberration and pick up where 2010 left off.  This doesn’t necessarily mean that we will move out of Christchurch but does mean that we have to get used to living with the new normal – a normal where a 5-6 magnitude shake is a possibility and jarring and unpredictable 4-5s happen every day or so.

So, the new normal means taking the kind of precautions that, despite the well-intentioned urgings of civil defence types, we’d never bothered with before.  The earthquake protection of our possessions and ourselves that started after June has started again. My partner has been doing simple things like making sure that open shelves have a barrier on them to prevent things flying off, attaching (and I mean really attaching) bookshelves, the television and anything vaguely moveable to walls, making sure there is nothing high and heavy in the childrens’ rooms and wrapping bungy cords around cupboards to make sure they don’t fly open.

We’ve also made some simple ‘living’ changes.  It is no longer acceptable for any vehicle to have less than half a tank of petrol. We always park one car on the road now just in case our driveway becomes impassable.  We have an emergency kit of spare clothes, personal effects etc. in the garage ready to be loaded into the truck in case we have to flee.  Three weeks without flushing toilets, safe water or power is no fun.

The bigger question “to stay or not to stay” is there just below the surface for both of us. We won’t stay because we’re gritty, determined or committed Cantabrians.  If we stay it will be because we like it.  We simply can’t think of where we could get (or afford) the superb access to sea, sand and privacy that we have where we live.  We are blown away by the quality of our daughter’s preschool here.  We both have exercise routines based around local facilities and are looking forward to the re-opening of Les Mills, Cashel Street at the end of March (fingers crossed).  We think we might even get a great new ‘New World’ supermarket around 10 minutes drive away.  It is scheduled to be built during 2012.

So, while are going to be exploring other options, the bar is very high.

Fingers crossed for a safe and settled 2012 for all in Christchurch.

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Commitments

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As part of a renewed focus on living a great life I’m currently working on 3 commitments.  Yes, that’s it – 3 commitments only.  I’m hoping that by building these three into habits I will then be able to create more space in my life for other things and build a foundation for some of the other commitments that I want to make.

Sleep is my first commitment.  I’ve always been a great sleeper.  In fact, my problem has been oversleeping anywhere from 10 to 12 hours a day.  But too much sleep makes me sluggish and I simply lose too much time.  At the moment I’m focusing on getting 8 hours a day.  On some days this means 7 and a half at night and a top up in the afternoon and other days (where I simply can’t make the space during the day) this means going to bed earlier.  I have a 5.30 wake up call, the beautiful spring time birds, so I need to compensate at the other end by going to bed half an hour earlier.

Exercise is really working for me at the moment.  This is kind of ironic given that I don’t have any gyms near me anymore thanks to the earthquake.  Most weeks I’m managing an exercise session 5-6 days.   I’m doing circuit training which, as I’ve got better at the exercises, I’m starting to really enjoy.  I’ve been fortunate in that I’ve had a light travel schedule which has enabled me to get this underway.  Fingers crossed I can keep it going as my travel increases over the next few weeks and I don’t have access to a motivating circuit class that I can attend.

Weekly I’m writing. I’ve made a commitment to blog every week.  I used to do this before parenting took over my life.   In fact, some weeks I’d blog multiple times a week.   Parenting still takes up a large amount of my time but I’m prioritising making the space to write instead of sleep (see above!) or simply wasting time surfing the net and reading magazines.  Inspired by Stephen King’s On Writing I’m no longer waiting for the muse to show up but starting regardless of where the muse is.  Early days yet, this is post number 3, but the key seems to be finding a specific time slot and writing no matter what.

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